So, you’ve been dating a guy for a few months now and you use false hair as a means of protecting your natural locks. It is now time for you to do the big reveal and show this guy what you are really working with but, how is he going to take it?
The reality is, many females hide behind the cover of a weave, as they feel it shows their beauty in its’ truest form but many men would love to see your confident curls and you sashay through the week with an abundance of hairstyles #HairVersatility.
Moving from relaxed hair to natural, I notice the increase in guys who approach me. Even if it is just to comment on my hair and I must say, it feels absolutely amazing! Confidence should come from within, not from the human hair that you’ve spent an arm and a leg on and trust me, I’ve seen the prices that some of these suppliers are retailing it for…crazy!
Ladies, unleash those fros, bounce those curls and va va voom those styles, as these guys have no idea how sexy natural hair is.
Natural hair and toned body?!
Have you ever wondered why your hair isn’t growing? Why is it breaking?
I have a good news for you 🙂 . Your hair is growing, you are just not retaining length.
Here are few reasons why and solutions:
– Your hairstyles: over manipulation and heat can seriously damage your hair. Leave your hair alone! Use protective styles so you don’t have to manipulate them too much and slow down on the heat.
– Your diet: check your diet. You know what they say: “You are what you eat”. It also works for the hair.
– Loss of moisture: There is only two solutions here. Moisture AND seal your ends. Water (the gold liquid) is a natural’s best friend and should be used daily in your diet or directly on the hair.
Use humectants to retain the moisture and make them more flexible. Humectants act like magnets, their role is to attract moisture that is in the air. However, they should be used with caution depending on the climate you are in. In dry climate, like winter, use moisturising conditionner instead, as there are not enough moisture in the air, otherwise they are excellent to avoid dry hair. Great humectants include glycerin, honey and panthenol.
Once that moisture is in your mane you need to seal it, as it evaporates quickly. Oils and butters such as shea butter, extra virgin olive oil, jojoba oil, and coconut oil are great sealants.
p.s.: if you suffer from excessive hair loss, you might want to consult your GP.
Stay tuned for more tips!
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In the Ivory Coast, a fairly new group of woman meet every two months in the capital of Abidjan. The group calls itself “Nappys de Babi,” and the 2,400 odd members share tips on how to maintain their natural hair.
The main goal of “Nappys de Babi” – which is a combination of “natural,” “happy,” and Abidjan’s nickname – is to convince black women to forgo relaxers, extensions, and wigs. However, most of the women haven’t worn natural hair since their teenage years.. Read more from Clutch Magazine >>here<<
So you have your natural kinks, coils and curls and want to define them so they stand out. Curl enhancing smoothies are at the top of everyones shopping list for this purpose alone but do they work?
The thing with curl defining products, is that they generally only work if you have a curl pattern within your hair texture to begin with. In saying that, Shea Moisture’s Curl Enhancing Smoothie has had rave reviews in regard to bringing life back into ‘crunchy’ wash-and-gos, lifeless spirals and hair which can sometimes be unmanageable.
This protein-rich product has allowed users to moisturise and condition their hair, without a greasy build up or the feeling that the hair is being weighed down. The product does not have any holding qualities, so should therefore be used in conjunction with something else to help maintain your hairstyle and reduce possible frizz.
Depending on your locality, obtaining this hit on the market may not be so easy to reach. Prices online may vary for the UK market (as the product is being imported), and start at approximately £15. If used sparingly, the 340g tub can last for a long period of time, making it a welcome addition to your natural hair routine.
NB: This product has the benefit of including proteins which can help to nourish your hair but, all you naturalistas who are protein-sensitive may wish to stay clear.
Many alternatives exist when it comes to styling natural hair.
Here’s one: the two strand twist bantu knot out. Easy and stylish at the same time. Check out BeautyistheMotive‘s tutorial and get those bouncy curls!
@mitipretty and her head full of curls…